About four years ago, a friend of mine met this Boston guy on Myspace (back when it was still a site people used, of course). He seemed really nice, they liked the same music and activities, and they even found out they had lived in the same neighborhood at one point and never met. Usually when you hear stories like that, the couple live happily ever after, so she was understandably excited. When they went on their first date, he wasn’t nearly as charming. In fact, he seemed a little “offâ€, as she called it. But she assumed it was nerves, and when they spoke online again he was just as perfect, so she tried again. On the second date he was even weirder, and several times he mentioned how everyone had a past and no one should be judged for it. But he said this without any prompting, making her nervous. Which was why she did a simple check when she got home of local registries and found he had been in prison. A bit more searching and she found out why. He was listed in the state’s sex offender registry for “unlawful sexual acts with a childâ€, along with a couple of other similar crimes. He had been charged with them just five years before, and had just gotten out of jail six months before they began speaking online. I am not saying this is a common story, or that it will happen to you. But it might explain why I have listed a criminal record search as a Boston dating tool.